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Friday, February 1, 2019

Love Yourself First

I've been thinking a lot about Valentine's Day this year; what girl isn't, right?


In all honesty, it's never been a huge holiday for me, but there's a little something different this year since I know that I won't be celebrating it.  In fact the only people I will even hear about it from are probably my parents - bless them.  And I'm 100% okay with it.  I really am.  But, it's had me thinking about all the women/girls out there who maybe aren't okay with it.  The ones who are going through a break up or have never had someone to celebrate it with or who just lost their loved one unexpectedly or maybe the ones who only serial date assholes....

Whatever the reason my heart goes out to you because I think there are so many things that we should do for US before we start trying to serve or give our heart to others.  Clearly, I'm no pro as I'm sitting behind this laptop in a house full of boxes with my belongings inside and I prepare to move out of the house my husband and I brought our daughter home to and into one I bought myself for my babies and me.  BUT, I'd like to think I've come a long way over the past 4 years and I'm not claiming perfection over here.  Promise - if it's one thing you will NEVER find on this space, it's perfection.

4 years ago I made a decision to do something for myself as hard as it was with a new (preemie) baby and very little money on hand.  I decided that I wanted to stop hating my body, beating myself up for all the little mistakes or incompetencies that I saw in myself, and love what I saw on the inside as well as the outside. 

And this is what I want to say to YOU.  Maybe you have a spouse or a significant other to celebrate with, maybe you don't.  Maybe you hate the holiday and men in general.  Whatever your stance is on the month of love and the impending holiday, might I suggest you do something for YOU this month?  An act of SELF love perhaps.  I only say this because I truly don't think we can love others until we love ourselves and I don't believe we should be in a relationship until we have the confidence to know what we value most. 

And...let's be honest, some of us are working on our revenge bodies.

So, if you're interested in getting that revenge body or just getting your groove back or loving what you see in the mirror, fill out this link and I'll share some information with you.  No strings.  Just love.

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